Hand Gliding with Donald Trump: A Lesson in Fear

Hand gliding with Donald TrumpIt is a rare occurrence when I use a blog platform to share a dream. This is a necessary exception.

This morning I had a dream that I was invited to join a hand gliding adventure orchestrated by Donald Trump.  Donald Trump had constructed a 12 person hand gliding machine that would travel from New York City to Los Angeles in 1.5 hours.  Along for the ride was an A-list team of achievers including Candice Bergen, Whoppi Goldberg, Suzy Welch, Levar Burton and Ivanka Trump.

I was honored to be hand-selected by Donald Trump to attend a luncheon to announce his new venture.  During the luncheon Donald Trump suddenly announced “Hey, let’s all go hand gliding.” Then he personally turned to me and said “Stephanie, why don’t you join me.” “Me!” I thought “You want me to join you?”  First of all I did not know how my dream had booked me a seat at the table with Donald Trump and now he wanted me to make history with him.

What he didn’t know is that my biggest fear was flying.  You can recite all the tactics in the big book of reasoning to attempt to convince me that flying is the safest method of travel – I am still not buying it.  Logic coupled with spiritual motivation (when it’s your time to go, it’s your time to go) will not erase a lifetime fear of flying.  Instantly I knew that I was staying behind.

How Would You Define Failure?

What is your standard for success?
What is your standard for success?

This question was presented while reading one of my favorite books by John Ortberg.  The answer decidedly will differ from one individual to the next  depending on life’s variables. I was inspired to create  a synopsis of what I thought failure was which lead  me to define, in depth, the terms “failure” and “success.” I will begin with the positive.

Success – The applied opportunity to abandon self created limitations, imposed ideologies and personal miscalculations to discover another plateau of life unparalleled to the one you just grew beyond.

Words commonly associated with “success
Yes, can, shall, could, would, will, do, positive, limitless

Failure – A man made stronghold which discourages educational, spiritual, philosophical and physical growth through silhouettes of doubt, pride and complacency. The emergence of failure is rooted from the isolation of fear.

Words commonly associated with “failure
No, can’t, shouldn’t, couldn’t, wouldn’t, won’t, don’t, negative, limitations

How do you measure your success or failure without a concise guideline? If you have not defined your standard of “success” and your statement of  “failure” then I encourage you to drop everything and begin this very moment.

Exercise: 1. Develop a definition for your standard of success.

Tips for creating a “standard of success

  • Your standard should reflect the true value of where you aspire to be.
  • Your standard should include ideas that are positive and motivating.
  • Include words commonly associated with your definition of success and apply them to your daily vocabulary.
  • Love it! This standard will be your blueprint of motivation for achievement.

2. Develop a definition for your statement of failure.

Tips for creating a statement of failure

  • Clearly define what you don’t want to attract and include it in your statement.
  • Reflect on past failures an incorporate those feelings into your statement.
  • Admit what has held you back and express those fears in your statement.
  • Include words commonly associated with your definition of failure and refuse to  incorporate them into your vocabulary.
  • Hate it! Your statement of failure is only to be read to remind you of where you don’t want to go or who you don’t want to be.

3.  Submit your definitions to CareerTear.com or CareerTier.com through our “Contact Us” option.  The best responses will be included in a follow up October blog.


Here’s to Your Success!

Is There Any Room for A Dreamer?

Posing the question “Does a College Degree Define Your Value in Society?”

I read an intriguing article on Forbes.com highlighting the importance of networking within the feminine circle. I instantaneously agreed with the wonderful ideas presented until I explored tip #4 – “Go Beyond Facebook” which focused on peer-powered networking.

Are you a Dreamer?

A recommended group to join was a prestigious women empowerment group Immediately I thought “If it is good enough for Forbes then it is great enough for me!”  I was redirected to their online  site and applied my online researching skills to good use.

To my astonishment, I saw an example of unblemished diversity among a blemished minority.  The premise is to connect and motivate women “who have graduated college or are current undergraduate students” with “women who have graduated college or are current undergraduate students.”  How perfect!  Wait, what about if I attended college, does that count?  What if I was a stay at home mom?  What if I am an entrepreneur? Most importantly what if I was a Dreamer?

I did not chose the traditional path of college and corporate.  Instead I created my own path of dream and purpose.  At the age of 17, I did not know what I wanted to do in life, but I carried a torch of passion within my spirit. I loved the structure of corporate America and at the age of 21 I worked my way up the ladder.  By the age of 24, I questioned my contribution to life and set out to do more with the talents graced to me by God.  I moved to Atlanta by age 25 and started my own company within months of stepping foot on Georgia soil. I began with Resume Writing, graduated to Career Consulting and have sprouted in the direction of Corporate Training and Career Development. I am living beyond the infancy of a dream.  To this date my torch still emits a flare of creativity and vision.

To ignore a woman’s societal contributions through the process of scrutiny and inclusion by collegiate standing is amplifying the very discrimination that you are attempting to eliminate. I support the execution of any organization that promotes the achievements, celebrates the bond and reinforces the dedication of women in corporate America.  I still wonder is there any room for a Dreamer?

Emotions aside, this group is not the target of my soapbox annoyance. I salute the dedication of any goal setter who has invested four plus years of sacrifice and prioritization to emerge a better person through a college degree.  It is amazing the value of learning that an institution adds to the quality of one’s life. I shall never discourage nor minimize the significance of learning and education.  With high importance, I promote avenues of continuous professional development and long term self-development. To praise degreed professionals yet slight the contributions of tassel-less dreamers is discouraging.

Let’s break down the demographic success of the group as reflected on the organization’s website.

Level of Education
38% – Bachelor’s Degree Only
51% – MBA
10% – Master’s
1%  – PhD
100% – Where is there room for a dreamer?

The organizations hand selected elite originate from a pedigree of Fortune 500 corporations and international business conglomerates.   I, however, emerge from a leading class of women who have blazed trails, spearheaded change, invoked thought, connected societies, created empires, lead teams, nursed generations [thanks to stay at home moms!], cheered leaders [thanks to soccer moms!], motivated groups, inspired souls, celebrated love, encouraged diversity, shattered glass ceilings and put roofs on fire.

Perhaps I am ignorant to the essence of the organization.  Perhaps I am lacking in facts.  Perhaps my emotions are misdirected.  Perhaps I am wrong. What is the worse that could happen? Being wrong just simply means there is room for Dreamers.

Stephanie Robertson is an Executive Career Consultant and Corporate Trainer for Career Tier of Atlanta.  She is heralded for her strengths to promote honest corporate dialogue and is passionate about workplace elevation.

5 Ways to Re-gain Your Office Independence

Gaining office independence can be quite easy.

Not sure why you’re continually being micromanaged?  The problem may not be your boss. It may just be you.  It is not too late to gain control and re-gain your office independence.

1.    Volunteer – Ask for additional responsibilities and seek opportunities to stand out from among your co-workers. The attitude of “that’s not in my job description” will get you nowhere.  Shouldering extended workloads proves that you have adopted the concept of teamwork and you are willing to go the extra mile. Volunteering for company sponsored events can also add a few brownie points to the count.

2.    Organize – Clutter equals chaos.  How can an employer trust you if your trash bin doubles as a file cabinet?  Ensure that your organizational skills are impressive and noticed. Co-workers will be instantly drawn to your clean cubicle which will peak the interest of management.  Treat your borrowed abode as a reflection of your corporate commitment.
3.    Offer Solutions – Are you adding to the problem?  Instead of complaining, try offering creative solutions.  If you present a problem, counter with an effective solution that has been well developed.  As the example, be prepared to execute this solution with precision.  This will not only build your independence, but it will elevate you to leadership status within time.
4.    Be Dependable – This requires you to be timely.  Showing up late, taking an extended lunch and leaving early does not constitute dependability.  Time consistency is vital in re-gaining your office independence.  Although it may seem simple, time management is a challenge for relaxed employees. If you find it difficult, try the one day at a time approach.
5.    Perform – Just doing your job is not enough; you must perform your duties with impressive results.  Delivering quality performance results in accomplishments thus resulting in added corporate value.  Once you have exceeded performance standards, you will be a noted asset to the company.  You might even be recognized in the “Employee of the Month” Hall of Fame.

Career expertise courtesy of Stephanie Robertson, Executive Career Consultant and Owner of Career Tier, an Atlanta based career consulting firm. www.careertier.com

Birthday Club Mantra

Is the office birthday club going haywire?  Gain control with a properly executed club mantra.

Members

  1. I will contribute my entire pledged amount without hesitation or attitude.
  2. I will put my pledge in my desk drawer when I get paid on Friday.
  3. I will not spend my pledged amount then ask my cubicle neighbor to let me “hold” something until I can break my $20.
  4. I will not avoid the Birthday Club Treasurer should I happen to frivolously spend my pledge.
  5. I will not give the birthday club treasurer pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters.
  6. I will not give the birthday club treasurer a personal check.
  7. I will not give the birthday club treasurer an I.O.U.
  8. I will not pretend that I am in the bathroom when pledge pay up approaches.
  9. I will not lie by saying that I already donated knowing that my name is not on the list.
  10. I will not pretend that a $100 bill is the smallest bill I have in order to avoid honoring my pledge.
  11. I will wait until everyone has had at least one slice of cake and one scoop of ice cream before I ask for seconds.
  12. I will not sneak another piece of cake for myself knowing that I intend to wrap it in foil and take it home to Jr. and Boo for dessert.
  13. I will not greedily ask for the last end piece until I know for sure that the birthday honoree says “Go ahead.”
  14. I will not spit out the cake in front of my co-worker when I discover a strawberry jellied surprise in the middle.
  15. I will not ask the Birthday Club President if he/she ordered the cake from Target or Wal-Mart.
  16. I will not ask to see a detailed accounting of the division of the birthday fund contributions.
  17. I will not question the extravagance or weakness of any gift that the Birthday Club president buys.
  18. I will not inquire if there was a surplus and rollover of birthday funds.
  19. I will not request a refund.
  20. I will not get an attitude if Sheila’s cake and gifts were better than mine during my birthday celebration.
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